Hurt feelings... Loose ends

Dealing with the feelings that come up when an ex gets engaged, moves away, or vacations with his new girlfriend make me feel jealous... I am super happy with my geek charming and my married bestie; so why am I feeling this way? Is it my Aphrodite complex? I seriously have a complex that makes me think I that every man should be in love with me... And when they're not, I get jealous. It's crazy, I know, but if I don't emote these feelings, or express them, they end up consuming me. At least I now know what it is. I seriously do not want to be with any of the men. I just want them to want me. Cookie and crazy but it's me!!!